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Overcoming Distractions for a Stronger Relationship

Whenever I see someone that is just sitting around and not looking at their cell phone, I am amazed. Everywhere you look people are on their phones. You might be guilty of this yourself. Stopped at the red light--pick up your phone. Waiting in that line--pick up your phone. These little devices are addicting. I work with a lot of couples where these kinds of distractions are doing more harm on their relationship than good.


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Distractions can significantly impact your romantic relationship, causing stress and leading to issues such as communication breakdown, lack of trust, and intimacy problems. In today's world, we are surrounded by distractions, and it's easy to get pulled in different directions, leaving our partners feeling neglected and unimportant.


One of the things I focus on in my Grow Relationship program is how to be more intentional and create a conscious relationship. When we are not intentional or conscious, we allow ourselves to be pulled in too many directions and lose sight in what is most important to us.

One of the most negative effects of distractions on a relationship is the lack of communication, trust, and intimacy, which can breed resentment, conflict, and misunderstandings. When you're always on your phone or engaged in other activities, your partner may feel like they're not a priority to you. This can cause serious issues and create distance between you two.


Another problem that distractions can cause in your relationship is the difficulty in setting boundaries. With technology at our fingertips, it's easy to become more distracted and less available to our partners. This can create resentment, conflicts, and trust issues in the relationship.

To overcome these distractions and strengthen your relationship, it's important to set boundaries around them. Think of distractions as leaks in the circle around your relationship. Identify areas where distractions are negatively impacting your time with your partner, and take steps to limit the time spent on them or eliminate them altogether. However, it's also important to ensure that you have time for yourself, so eliminating everything is not recommended. Replace the time spent on distractions with quality time with your partner, and make them your priority.

Another crucial step in managing distractions is effective communication. Instead of explaining or justifying your actions, practice actively listening to your partner's concerns and understanding their perspective. Avoid reacting and try to resolve the issue together. Effective communication is key to resolving conflicts and strengthening your relationship.

Remember that distractions are a part of life but managing them is crucial for a healthy relationship. By setting boundaries, communicating effectively, and making time for your partner, you can minimize distractions and strengthen your relationship. Take small, incremental steps daily, and work together with your partner to overcome distractions and build a stronger connection.

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